I can't quite put my finger on it. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. I am clinging to it because we are back to the same old thing I must admit this last couple of years has been hard on me. I'm sure their motives and good intentions are good - shame some female patience cause us the Doctors wives to have anxieties.
My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. I don't think I can do it again.
It's not a gender issue or money issue. She never mentioned TSCC. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls.
Chances are you can't though. Is it really worth it to give up what I want out of a relationship because its hard to balance studying which I understand is stressful and being with the person who makes you happy. Break up with her.