What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together. We often wonder how we will pay our bills sometimes. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. It was a complete turn around from what I'd previously seen from her but obviously it was something she'd been thinking about. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband.
And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. Anyway, i know that this is not the experience of every surgical marriage but i guarantee most of them can relate in some way or another.
I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. It is soooo difficult to cope. What goes on in those sacred temples. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. We had our first child about a year into the relationship.
Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. Should I get rebaptized. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom.