They don't want to accept that someone can understand the doctrine and choose to reject it. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. My husband was definitely worth the heartache and suffering that I endured but I am grateful that he was able to see that our family was worth a change in lifestyle. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. For an example of what this means - say you get hurt in a car accident. Want to add to the discussion. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second.




He told me that there is nothing in the world that is more gratifying. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes.
I definitely don't want to lead her on. You have to come second right now. Please wait a few minutes and refresh this page. Though, not everyone is looking for a free lunch out of a marriage. I never give him shit for it. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward.
Learn more about the LDS Church. Then here for a musical explanation of how those who yearn for a rational faith can resolve doubt through symbolical interpretation. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc. Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. They have heavy-handed laws, free handouts, unfair advantages for getting jobsвa loud feminist illusion spoon fed to them.