There are all sorts of ways to have sex with all sorts of biological and store-bought equipment — and not all of them are about orgasms. But for many people vaginas especially those who have sex with cis-men , having an orgasm when they do really want one can be a bit of a challenge. For some, it requires a little more finesse. The names are as interesting and fun as the positions themselves. Click through to find out what these positions entail and exactly how to pull them off. One of the best positions for an orgasm is a saucy little number relationship coach and sex enhancement specialist Delilah Taylor likes to call The Drop Box. The [penetrating partner] stands on the floor in front of her and supports her legs. His penis [or toy] will enter her in a natural upward motion rubbing directly on her G-spot area. Make the most out of sex and give yourself a practically guaranteed orgasm by experimenting with one or both variations of the G-Whiz.
1. Sit to Stand
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg. Have your partner thrust into you while they kneel and grab your hips so your thighs rest on their lap.
The Drop Box
Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone.
Feeling a little stuck in your current sex routine, or just want to explore some new sensations? Take your pick, and give a few of these best sex positions a whirl—but don't be afraid to experiment even further to figure out exactly what works for you and your partner. The best part?