He took out his bad moods on everyone. He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. It had been going on for years. After our child was born, I can say that my resentment of my husband started to grow and overshadow the respect I have for what he does. He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day.
As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. I am someone who loves quality time a lot. You are too young to deal with this.
Stick around on this sub. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity. Thank you so much for your comment. The first week home he is already covering someone elses cases I struggle with where to draw the line Again we have never had coverage when we needed it. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse.
I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. But I got tired of that, and I made it clear to him that I will stay in with him as often as he wants, put him to bed, make food with him or for him, clean, etc.