Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. Honestly a lovely man but the sheer focus of time and attention has meant there is little if any left for me, I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes in comparison with some nights of 2 hours going on and on and on about work. That is the million dollar question. So basically we were lies to for years. Did he ever buy me anything other than a coffee or a dinner. There is no way this will work out. They get hazed, they get questioned all the time, they don't get sleep, they have people's lives in their hands and have to struggle to be confident in what they know, but not too egotistical to kill someone Give him the benefit of the doubt and some space. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness.
First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. Hi, like others I've read a lot of the posts but still have a few questions. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him.
I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. She converts to your religion. I don't know if I can do it or if I want to. Thank you so much for your comment.
She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. Next year we are getting married but I already see a tough life ahead of me. Funny Nicknames for Guys. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church.